Parents/guardians and families can:
- Play an important role in advocating for safe spaces where your child can explore interests without judgment or stereotypes.
- Support diverse friendships and social involvement without focusing on expectations around gender.
- When your child discloses their identity to you, respond in an affirming, supportive way. Understand that gender identity is often revealed over time as people discover more about themselves.
- Accept and love your child as they are. Try to understand what they are feeling and experiencing. Even if there are disagreements, they will need your support and validation.
- Stand up for your child when they are mistreated. Do not minimize the social pressure or bullying your child may be facing.
- Make it clear that slurs or jokes based on gender, gender identity, or sexual orientation are not tolerated. Express your disapproval of these types of jokes or slurs when you encounter them.
- Be on the lookout for signs that may indicate a need for mental health support such as anxiety, insecurity, depression, and low self-esteem.
- Connect your child with LGBTQIA+ organizations, resources, and events. It is important for them to know they are not alone.
- Celebrate diversity in all forms. Provide access to a variety of books, movies, and materials—including those that positively represent gender-diverse individuals. Point out LGBTQIA+ celebrities and role models who stand up for the LGBTQIA+ community, and people in general who demonstrate bravery in the face of social stigma.
- Support your child's self-expression. Engage in conversations with them around their choices of clothing, jewelry, hairstyle, friends, and room decorations.
- Reach out for education, resources, and support if you feel the need to deepen your own understanding of LGBTQIA+ youth experiences.
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